As soon as you reach age 30 you might start thinking that you won't be
having much luck in finding your dream man. But don’t worry,
being over 30 should not put you in the panic mode. You will be glad to discover
that there are a lot of decent, kind and available men who are looking for
someone just your age to love, and that might just be you! You don’t have to do
anything drastic. Just get on with these dating tips.
BE CONFIDENT
Be confident. You are a woman in your prime. You are bright,
savvy and beautiful. Don’t think
otherwise of yourself because that just what that Mr. Right is going to see
when he finally sets his eyes on you.
DON’T BE
PRESSURIZED
Don’t allow outside or internal pressure to make you
desperate to find Mr. Right. It is not important to get married right now but
it is important to find the right man to get married to. Parents pressurize
their children to get married to give them grand kids and that had led more
than one woman down a path that wasn’t right. In 2014, don’t leap into a
relationship you don’t really want because you think it will make other people
happy. Instead, focus on what it will take to make you happy and find the man
that will deliver.
HAVE A GOOD LAUGH
It is especially important to laugh while on date. If he
doesn’t laugh along with you, then he is probably not Mr. Right. Who wants a
Mr. Right that either takes himself too seriously or just can’t seem to
loosen up and have fun? The purpose of
dating is to have fun with someone else; if you are not both having fun, it’s
not going to be a great date. Laugh. Have fun. Be prepared for a good time instead
of worrying about what could get wrong.
LIVE YOU LIFE
Do whatever it takes to clam you. Whether you need a massage
or facials at the spa. Do whatever it takes to find your place of Zen. When you
are comfortable and relaxed, you will be
in a much better frame of mind to have fun and to be fun.
TREAT YOURSELF
Make sure you look the best you possibly can. Get yourself a
makeover, manicure/pedicure, get a new hair do, go shopping, dress well.
BE DISCIPLINE
If you really see a future with someone you’ve just started
dating. I suggest you exercise discipline in pacing the relationship,
especially if you are over 30. There is a good chance that you have been on a
number of dates. It works to your favor when you space the dates out from once
a week to once a fortnight. Too much, too soon may have may have a ‘crash and
burn’ effect because both parties have different expectations. Too far apart
makes you forget the person or maybe because you do not have enough chemistry
to want to see the person sooner. Even if Mr. Right wants to see you sooner,
and you also love it that way, it’s best to exercise a little self control, especially
if you foresee this relationship as a potential one leading into marriage.
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