SISTERS GIST

Sisters, don’t make SEX a cheap commodity!

Only few women out there are not guilty of cheap sex at some point in time in their lives. Often times, women have a misconception of sex and love making. Sex is sex and that is just that, while making love is an entirely different thing. It is vital and critical that the effort be made to share an environment where that sacred act can be completely enjoyed. This explains why people can make love without having sex. And in the other way round, you can have sex, without enjoying it.

Sometimes, sex can be mistaken for love or bonding. Again, that you have regular sex with a man doesn’t mean he loves you. Due to this misconception, women tend to make sex a cheap commodity for the men. The earlier we know the things, the better because if only you knew how men feel about sex, you would think twice the next time he demands for it.

REASON WHY YOU SHOULDN’T MAKE SEX A CHEAP COMMODITY

1.     Sex for a man releases tension, allows him to rid himself of pent-up stimulants that are aching to be gone out of his body. What makes you feel you are not the available woman as at the time he needs to release his tension? How else do you think he sees you if not his SEX OBJECT?

2.     He may be married, engaged or in a serious relationship, yet still creates time to sneak into your bed to lay you. The mare fact that he is doing so, should tell you that you can never be important in his life. Obviously, you are nothing but his SEX OBJECT!

3.     He may use sex in return of one favor he did to you. One thing you should know is that, anyone can choose to help without asking for anything in return. He can help you without making you his SEX OBJECT!

4.     Sometimes, he may use sex as an excuse for marriage or a serious relationship, but the truth is, does everyone who have sex together end up married? You are not his SEX OBJECT! If he truly wants marriage, he should know that there will be plenty time for sex when you eventually get married.

5.     Don’t be deceived to think sex is the road to real love or strong bond, true love is should not be based on sex. True love is patience, caring and selfless.

6.     Having sex with the one you don’t love is the worse torture you can do to yourself. Little wonder how there is no single passion before and after the act. Sometimes, you even find yourself crying or sad after the act, and on his own part, he suddenly looses interest in you after orgasm.                                                         

Sisters, if you never knew, delayed sex in a relationship makes for a more satisfying and stable relationship later on. After reading this piece, we believe you think twice the next time he comes knocking on your door for sex.